*shrug* I dunno... I think the bases as a meterstick of activity are probably just obscuring the actual issue. Unless you've got a couple of 1st-class hornballs that go from zero to 69 in under 10 seconds, there's going to be SOME natural progression of activity.
I never recall kissing being a "base". I seem to conjure up Jr. High memories of 1=top, 2=bottom, 3=oral, 4=the old bump'n'grind.
Kissing, especially, opens this conversation up much wider than it already is. From a cultural perspective, 1st base by that definition is how you say hello! (Of course, just because I'm not aware of a culture where crotch-grabbing isn't a commonly accepted greeting, doesn't mean there ISN'T one, I guess...) ;)
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Date: 2005-03-10 09:07 pm (UTC)I never recall kissing being a "base". I seem to conjure up Jr. High memories of 1=top, 2=bottom, 3=oral, 4=the old bump'n'grind.
Kissing, especially, opens this conversation up much wider than it already is. From a cultural perspective, 1st base by that definition is how you say hello! (Of course, just because I'm not aware of a culture where crotch-grabbing isn't a commonly accepted greeting, doesn't mean there ISN'T one, I guess...) ;)